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there's no such things as wrong timing

Let me tell you 2 stories when I blamed the time.  Story 1 It was a few years ago when someone really wanted me. He even had been waiting for me to graduate from university for two years long. He made a serious effort. He loved me (at least, that's what he said), and family blessings and support were showering on us. Nothing to be worried about him superficially. Everything should run smoothly. We should be together (as everyone said).  But I made it difficult. I found no connection. Something felt wrong even though I don't know what it was . I blamed the timing , saying, "He might be the right one at the wrong time; I'm not ready yet." "I'm not ready for what he was bringing to the table." "I'm not ready yet to compromise on what he wanted from a relationship."    Story 2 I met the person who seemed to epitomize everything I've been looking for. He made me feel again. I felt the connection was strong. I trust him effortlessly; I